I need advice on this guy b/f tomorrow! ?

There is a guy at my work (internship) who I find very hot! I notice him staring at me a lot and he is always so polite to me. He acted more reserved around me then with the other colleagues, but we had to work on a team together for a project and we all got to know each other better, so he is more comfortable with me. He always says hi to me first in the hallways and we smile at each other a lot. We have a group lunch tomorrow and I want to talk to him more, so what should I say w/out embarrassing him at work and in a group lunch? Also, do you think he likes me?

At the very least he is attracted to you, or he wouldn't keep staring at you. I would probably keep the conversation lite around your co-workers though until things progress further. If you are interested in him just go ahead and let him know. But do it when you aren't surrounded by others, so that he won't be embarrassed. Some of us guys tend to be self conscious when women take the initiative and there are others around.

It really depends on how large the group is, and whether the conversation will break up into a lot of little ones, or be focused on the entire table. If it's the former, then it should be pretty easy to strike up a conversation with him if you make sure to sit by him. If it's the latter, then you should just go with it and not try to split the conversation, as it would be going against the entire purpose of the lunch. Instead, if you've got enough guts, you could try to catch him before or after the group lunch to ask him if he'd like another meal with just the two of you, maybe this weekend.

Um it always hard to tell for sure if a guy likes u or if they are just being flirty and nice. But i think he likes u from the way u said he acts toward u.

But the whole talking about feelings at work is a bad idea, u should try and get him alone an ask him out to coffee or something so u can talk cause its not the best thing to talk about at work especially because ur with ur co-workers
Good luck
Taylor:)

Whatever you do, do NOT miss this opportunity! Say anything "work related" that comes to your mind. Example: "I like the way you handled the_____". Or "That was an interesting ___________" Or maybe you want to start out with: "Nice Tie, or Nice Suit" Sounds corny, but gets the ice broken. Or better yet, invite him out for coffee after work and worry about what to say once you're there. If you are not comfortable with everyone at work "knowing your personal business" try to ask him while you are not near others.
Good Luck!

yeah he probably does like you since he smiles at you and says hi to you alot. sounds like he pays alot of attention to you, which is always a good thing.

i think you should just talk about anything that comes to mind. im sure something will. like talk about what you did that day or week. and what you are going to do the rest of your summer or something.

then ask him on a date =]

I definately thinks he likes you from what i hear!! Ask him how works going and don't just center it on him talk to everyone so it looks like you aren't interested. He might ask you a few questions but don't give him a huge answer. Play hard to get. It always works for me but don't act like a snot or anything. He might ask you out soon!! and REMEMBER if he doesn't ask you out, ask him out! Go for it, whats the worst that could happen. Good Luck!!

sounds like he might think of you as a good possibility. you need to find out at this luncheon if hes single. when he starts to talk about something respond with something like- oh, what did your girlfriend have to say about that. then you will know if hes even available. if hes says hes single, it will be easy to start up a conversation such as what he does for fun. give him a good start, but let him make the move.

at the table or whatever, sit next to him!
if he was polite to you, be polite and ask if you could sit next to him
dont be shy
be outgoing and engage in the conversations proposed at the lunch.
good luck and i hope that i helped =D

If I were you
I'll just talk to him
its no big deal...
talk to him like a friend.
then once you've both know each other
better. take things more seriously
and to the next level
if thats what you want.
But for now, live to Flirt =D

Discuss school and academics. This is a safe and common ground. Allow for mutual exchange of ideas. Keep things professional.

Just talk to him
Become a good friend to him
Don't like make it obvious but like
if you guys do become friends
maybe it will lead to even more

he might like you or is just really friendly
ask him what he usually does on weekends
ask him if he wants to get dinner one night or coffee an early morning
or just go with your gut

Do the old bump greeting move. fold your arms and if you stand next to him bump him a little and smile. Been there.

Go for it

he definately likes you, but i don't really know what to say to him.

well duh he likes you

i'd wait. ur not sure if he likes you. he might just be a nice person

I'd say he likes you. Just start bringing up random stuff with him "what do you think about the Chinese having underage girls participate in the olympics".. "what did you think of ------ movie" small talk that you can that take anywhere you want.

he may like you, it's hard to tell from just that but tomorrow at your luncheon thing, just say hi and ask him about his day, if he tries to make you laugh, laugh even though it might not be funny, smile but not a clown smile (those freak even me out), tell him that you like bein good friends with him and that your glad that you met him, just try to have a normal friendly conversation, but thrown a few flirty moves in to see how he reacts, but don't overdo it

and go ahead and ask him if he would like to see a movie, it might sound like a date set up, but if you ask it in a happy tone, not a shy one, he'll probably say yes might i suggest batman: dark knight

Okay. All of the advise you are getting is telling you to basically go for it and how to do it. Here comes a different side.

DON'T CRAP (S**T) WHERE YOU EAT!!!!

What this means is don't allow personal (romantic) feelings for someone into your job. You say that your work is an internship. So, I can only guess that you are in your mid 20's and just entering the work world (If I am wrong about this, I apologize). But, you want to maintain a professional persona and that will be difficult if you are blowing kisses to a co-worker. Also, if the romance goes bad, who is going to leave the job.
I am not telling you not to do it. But I think someone should show you the other side of the coin you are trying to flip.