Advice on dating a 38 year old woman? I am 23....

So I'll keep it short...but basically....i was grocery shopping last week....and I saw this beautiful business woman...complete in a full suit who was standing next to me while I was looking for some food...I asked her out...and she agreed.

Our first date we went out for a drink and some dinner. Then we went to a movie, and then she invited me over to her house on the third date and we made dinner, and went for a walk.

She invited me over to her house last night..and she answered the door in her panties, a garter belt, and braisiere....she had candles all lite up as well.....she is a very attractive female and seems so sweet. I love mature women who know what they want. I agreed to make love with her, since she had put so much effort into the night, but i'm not sure how I should proceed from here. Any tips?

Women like her are called "cougars" and enjoy trysts with younger men. I don't think you'll have to worry about how to proceed -- she'll let you know what she wants next and when.

This is all fine, to each his own. Just don't get your hopes up too high for a lasting relationship. It's the exception rather than the rule...

Good luck and have fun while it lasts! : )

Chances are she's not looking for a "relationship," at least not beyond a 'friends with benefits' relationship for the time being. She's attractive, obviously likes you, and put a lot of effort in your last date. Keep going and see what happens. If things progress beyond FWB, great! If not, you had a great time with a woman you asked out, and hopefully can have a great friendship with.

Good luck!

Is it really a relationship or is it just lust.
If it's just lust then it's most likely that it won't go on for much longer
The women is single with no children for sure?
If you really care about her
you should ask her and talk to her about what's going on and where you guys are at.

sounds like whatever you're doing, you're doing it RIGHT!
keep with it, man, you don't want to lose a girl like that.
i mean, if you're 23 and you can get a 38 year old, you don't wanna let that broad go!
she can probably be something of a sugar-mama if you know what i mean, maybe you can get some cash out of this deal, bro!

She might just be using you but if that is not a problem then there is no problem. Just be careful since she likely does not want a long term relationship. If the sex is good and you are having fun then be careful not to get serious for she might not be.

This sounds like an episode of "Desperate Housewives"

Just keep doing what you've been doing.
don't expect sex, just let it happen. If you try too hard, she will think that's what you're after.
As long as you continue to treat her with respect, you'll be fine.

Ok,First of all its disgusting for a male to be the younger one.
Second, In the Bible, the guys are always older...but if your the opposite thinker than its ok and as long as she's ok with it.

wow, well it all depends on your feelings for her. if you still like her then keep it going !! but it seems like things are going great, so i say that you keep going out with her and see what happens. best of luck !

Geepers Beaver, sounds like she's got it all under control! Just enjoy the ride while it lasts.

Be honest and listen to her needs. My best advice is enjoy the relationship.

Dude she's old, but if thats what you like then do your thing, I am sure youll learn some things from here!

Have fun, but don't get hitched. You'll regret it 20 years from now.

ick....thats hot though the NIGHT lol .... anyway just let her take control she kinda already gots it!

Keep spending time with her. And don't be over protective.

Unless your going to marry her, I'd stay away. She probably gave you herpes.

well if you like her, continue dating her... let things happen.

go with the flow

"I agreed to make love with her"? sounds like a business deal.

stay with her

dont stay with her !

well if you really like her get married llol suroise

you lucky man!!!!!!!!!!! When i was 23 i dated a 42 yr old....best time of my life and I learned alot sexually. Keep on going for her...you will never regret it dude!

at what point do you wake up from this dream?

lol ..sorry no tips. my Boyfriend is her age and your my age this is so funny.. sorry.. Idk what else to tell you.. but I'v been with him for about 5 yrs..its ok..

You lucky man! seems like you don't have problems meeting/with the opposite sex. Just go with the flow if you like her- I mean you did ask her out surely you realised if things got serious she is nearly double you're age though that doesn't matter. She's probalby chuffed to bits (pleased) that a younger guy has asked her out and will make the effort with you in order to keep you if she is genuine. Just go for it I think you will be pleasently surprised if you carry on with the relationship?friendship.
If however you're not sure plz tell her u made a mistake as it will be doubly heartbraking for her if you break it off as apossed to someone her own age did.