its true, i am very very indecisive!! now i take the time to acknowledge it! and its irritating! like whenever i go shopping, i cant decide whether i want the dark blue or black this n' that, i cant decide whether i want to go here or there, heck, i always get stuck making decisions. i am not kidding, i have even spent almost an hour in one store trying to make up my mind on what i want to get.
and my indecisiveness isnt only limited to trivial decisions involving my shopping business. my indecisiveness also gets me when i am making major decisions.......i cant decide where i will be going to college (just one example).
and to top the sundae off with a cherry, i HATE it when decision-making is thrown at me! (an example)there is nothing more that gets me than when im with friends and they ask me "where do you want to go??" i will never decide, and if i do make up my mind, i am afraid that they will not like the place that i choose.
can i thank my Libra rising for this?? you bet your *** you should ^ ^
what i really really hate is buying stuff, i mean i like stuff but it takes me forever to choose, like last week when i bought some christmas presents, i went back to the same store 3 times and i also did that to the other stores, and i still couldnt make up my mind.
and when people try to rush me, that really pisses me off.
well its always good to have someone with you when buying that gives you a little push, so you can be more confident on your choice.
and these are the questions that i wouldnt even dare think to come out of peoples mouths: what do you want? where do you want to go? what do you want to eat? and ill jsut ask them the same thing. coz ill be analyzing the whole friggin day.
Try to look at it at the brightside, indesiciveness (at least the Libra trait) is a positive trait. Libras arent indecisive because they dont know what they want or they dont know how to decide, Libras analyze every possible situation and every outcome before they make their move, this is an Air sign doing its balancing act. looking at every side of the situation, every decision is critical, it could make the difference between failure or success. coz at the end of the day, youll be relieved that you didnt buy a talking lady bug for your boyfriend and that you got him what he really actually wants. I cant decide whether it is or not As a Libra......thank your Libra..... The problem is that they want fairness in the balance...
Libra is not indecisive per se. It's just that he weighs the pros andcons before making his final decision.
I've told this to one user before. Why are their so many judges that are born under Libra ??????
They are not indecisive. O.K. They take a little time to think about it buts that's what Libra is all about.
As for me, I take decisions quickly but, I have good aspects that stabilizes my decision making process.
Having said this, their are other contributing factors in your indecision. Where is your Mercury placed and Moon ? i find the less serious i am about something, the more decisive i am. if i'm serious and stressed about something, i don't think i can ever decide what to do that's why i just try and look at it lightly and it helps me decide (and i make good decisions when i'm like this too). Yup... i have the opposite problem from yours... i simply rush on things without thinking... must be my aries rising fault...
First, a guy badtalks in my back about me, and what do i say first... "i dont give a damn about what they think off me" (in truth i do, but my aries rushes me so bad , that im constantly making bad choices...)
2nd... you have problems choosing things, i have problems not choosing them, my mom goes to shoping with me, she tells me, do you like that jacket, and i only say 2 things... yes or no, hardly are the times i get undecisive over what to choose and then when i get home, most of the times i regret telling her that i liked the jacket... LOL...
Other problem of mine are the way i deal with people when they start to annoy me, i simply get mad, plain and simply mad, and feel like ripping theirs heads off... in a way, im a war monger...and honestly, i dont like it...
luckily, i can control my aries when its big decisions, big decisions make me unsure of what to do... per instance, i dont know what carrier will i follow yet...
I also like watching people fight... my aries rising must be quite a warmonger...
war is like of big meaning to me, but i cant understand sometimes why...
Lastly... sometimes i feel like im the best... and that no one matches me... in a way i could associate this with aquarius sun and capricorn aspects, but sometimes i feel im the best even when its been proven when im not and that already goes to the aries realm...
when i have confidence problems, its hell, plain and simple...
I wish i had an aquarius rising :) Hi
Your ascendant represents your first impressions of the world. The sign on the ascendant shows how we expect to encounter and experience the world.
So, with Libra as your ascendant you encounter and experience the world as beautiful, balanced and harmonious.
If you are indecisive, perhaps you are trying to balance and harmonise too much. This can make it difficult to make decisions for fear that it could disturb the peace or <heaven forbid> that it could be the wrong decision.
We never make "good" or "bad" decisions - we just decide to do things based on the best information we have at the time. No need to agonise over things - with most decisions, it's not as if we are deciding to rob a bank or commit murder :-)
Try to "go with the flow" on a few things, and try to express your true feelings and emotions a bit more. In other words, GIVE YOURSELF SOME SPACE. This will allow you to express a true balance based on what feels right inside. This may make things clearer in the long term.
And, if in doubt on the BIG questions, ask a good friend for their advice. Yeap for sure, being a true Capricorn i knew Exactly what to get and where to go because ihad already figured out 2 months ago Think what you like as to the cause, unless you make a decision you'll be in that shoe shop forever! Yes you can. I'm a Libra with a Capricorn rising and this affects me all the time. My sun and rising combination brung alot of hurt to me throughout the years of my life. A good example of this, when I don't make a decision fast, people start to feel threaten by me for no reason. For you, in time, you will make the right decision. All you have to do is make your sun and rising combination work together in ways that you thought wasn't possible. yes. i have libra rising as well, and i'm in the same boat (sigh!) Sure could be ! Libra likes to weigh all the pro and cons in all situations so making a judjment could prove difficult.
If you think about it : the symbol is the Balance........trying to make them equal although in this world; decisions have to be taken.
That said.........Libra IS a cardinal sign afterall so once they make up their mind........after like 200 years and 3 days : they won't budge.
Wonder why so many judges are born under the sign of Libra now ?? they have to weigh the pro and cons, hearing different sides.......and ultimately make a judgment.
People forget that Librans or people with heavy Librans influences tend to look "very patient" whilst actually they are trying to make their mind up. It IS afterall a decision making making sign and pro - active; many people could view it as a water sign whilst they are thinking thinking thinking and thinking..but it is not.
Your opposite is Aries which will act on compulsions; short terms goals instead of looking at long term achievements (generally speaking here of course) so you both belong to the same coin so to speak - only in reverse.
Head or tails ??:-)
PS: letting you on a (not so much) secret ...lots of people with Libra rising or venus in the first house (if not badly affected by Saturn or whatever) tend to be very looking - but careful about the weight -. and the pancreas ! |
