What should I do now with a depressed boyfriend?

Last week I asked a question and rec'd awesome advice...which I followed and got positive results. It was about my boyfriend of 1 1/2 months working alot that I felt neglected. He owns a resturant and catering business. Very busy this time of year.
When I told him I felt neglected..he really opened up to me. And explained that not only was he extremely busy but that he also suffers from bouts of depression. And he is going through one right now. That he was embarassed by it. Was on Medication but didn't seem to be helping. In the meantime, he invited me to a New years Day Party that he was hosting today. Told him I was not sure if I could make it.
In the meantime..we got into a little spat. He told me that he would meet me and my friends out on Friday night. He did not show up...did not call. Went to another resturant instead. I confronted him. He appologized, But had no explaination.
He did not call to ask if I would be coming to his party. Not sure what I should think or do??

In response to the answer that I should just give up and walk away. You have some very good points. But To be honest...that's what I normally do in relationships. I never want to expend more energy than I have to. This time..this person...is different. No, I don't think I can save him...but I do think he may be worth a little energy on my part.

i think u should give him a chance. a depressed person becomes kind of selfish and indifferent and not in mood to give explanations or behave very politely. u should instead be more cheerful & try to get him out of it.. wait a little bit & see what goes on, from that you can decide whether you should continue or not

I think you should go out and by yourself a pint of your favorite flavor of ice cream.

I think you should come see me, and I will take care of everything. You can also help relieve the stress of taking care of you with some excellent conversation and christian values.

don't do anything rash...remember that he is depressed and is even on medication...so his emotional ups and downs aren't really his fault....i know this might seem hard but you're going to have to be sensitive to HIM....try to be understanding and go to his party....he needs love and affection now more than ever....regardless of how he is to you...remind yourself that this probably isn't the real him..and once he's completely cured......things will change...most likely for the better...best of luck...and try to enjoy yourself at his party!

with someone who has a business like he has you tend to forget alot of the time about personal meetings and calls. its all business with him. in this type of relationship you have to be very patient. with depression that he has he will just disregard everyone from time to time. read tips on love and relationships to help you more on this site

Too much energy is being given to this situation and you're not getting any of it back. If you continue to travel on this path with him, you're going to find yourself feeling all depressed, bummed out and confused.

I personally don't think this is the relationship for you and it is okay that want to leave. You can't fix what medication is suppose to fix. It will not make you a bad person to walk away from a relationship that doesn't offer you what you need it to offer.

You can put an end to your stress, walk out and move on.