Should I feel guilty? What should I do to try to help the situation?

funny because I messed around with this guy at my college.He happens to be my sorority sister best friend and his sister is also my sorority sister.I asked him advance if anything romantic was going on between him and his friend, he said no,,and he liked me and was very attractive.Well I guess you can say I didn;t handle the situation to good.We ended up sleeping togehter a few times.I called him up one day asking him for my earings I left as his house, and he told me not to call him anymore, and if i did he would put my business out in the street if I contacted him again.I'm dumbfounded because he hadn't gave me any signs.Actually I asked him if it was okay for me call him again, And so I asked him could we talk it out because he seemed so mad., but he was like no.So the next day, I get a call from his 'best friend" inviting me to an event he was hosting, and so now none of my almost sorority sister's don't speak to me anymore, neither does he.I'm thinking did I do something wro

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15 minutes ago
I know I shouldn;t have slept with him, it doesnt make me look good, I guess, but it had been a year, since I had sex, and you can say he was there at the right time,...but I feel so bad, I think they probably see me as a ****...but I'mmreally not

14 minutes ago
Just to add a few details...but not only that I heard that him and his best friend felll out over the situation.And it was crazy because my almost sorority sister, sat behind me during graduation and never even said hello, how are you,...and his frat brother was staring at me the entire time, and I don't even know him...

I didn't go after him.He came after me.He was the one who started inviting me to his BBQ's and Parties.He was the one that intiated everything..

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I would say you are putting way too much thought into this. If you are done going to school there let it go. People make mistakes and they learn from them hopefully!! Move on with life you and them will eventually get over it.

dont worry who cares about those shallow people, people have sex, tell them to get over it

My dear child, ok so you know you made a huge mistake. You don't look good, or feel good about yourself. However learn from this, don't repeat it and move on. If you graduated go on with your life.

There really isn't anything you can do, just don't do it again or give them reason to think that way of you. Maybe you could apologize but I don't really see anything you have to be sorry for.

You have NO reason to feel guilty. People do these things all the time. Just move on.

I guess the big thing you need to accomplish is trying to figure out why everyone is mad at you. You slept with a guy, big deal, isn't college for experimenting? I would stop trying to talk to him and ask your friends what it was that you did to upset them. Be open about the fact that you are confused as to why this guy is angry, you thought things were ok, but if there was something you did to offend, you certainly didn't mean to. See if you can get some answers by just opening yourself and your situtation to your friends.

Hey i am not going to say you were wrong or right but at time like that never depend on the other party to be honest(and definitely not if they think they are going to get lucky lol)Don't sweat it because in life we all have lessons we must learn as you just found out.So move on and let it go!Good luck with life's lessons as you have many more to come!

Everyone does things that they regret. I don't know if there is anything you should do. This guy lied to you...led you on. Perhaps you should of talked to the friend or sorority sister about him first. Obviously this guy lies to get what he wants. There are just some lines that you shouldn't cross. If I meet a guy and his best friend is a girl...I don't take it any further. Unless the guy is gay....there are some hidden feelings going on between the two. A girlfriend of mine once said that she has friends who are men...not because she sees them as friends, but because she sees them as a possible romantic interest. It seems that this guy has already put your business out on the street. Probably did it after the first time you guys did it. Were you looking for a sex buddy or a relationship? If it was only about the sex...you hit it...so move on. If you were looking for love....you messed up because no guy is going to consider you as girlfriend material if you give it up so easily. As far as the women go....you can try to talk to them...but do you really want friends who are willing to take the word of a guy without getting all the info themselves? As far as what they think of you, why do you care? I think you crossed the line by going after someone who was involved (regardless of the status of their relationship) with another woman. Since this is a sorority...perhaps you can appeal your case to a senior sister. Since you have already graduated...move on. Learn what you need to learn.

Thats pretty sad but u have no reason to feel guilty i would be wondering wat he is spreading about u. Great friends u have u need to try to talk to one of your friends that u think will open up to u to find out wats going on. This is not fair on u.